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General Dalai Lama's Advice

2011.03.31 09:44

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Dalai Lama's Advice with regard to

How To Establish Empathy With Others


You must have a compassionate heart
which all of us are born with
and needs to be nurtured as one grows.
"When I meet people,
I always approach them from the standpoint of
the most basic things we have in common.
We each have a physcial structure, a mind,
and emotions.
We are all born in the same way,
and we all die.
All of us want happiness and
do not want to suffer.

Looking at others from this standpoint
rather than emphasizing
secondary differences such as the fact that
we are of different ethnicity, colors, cultures,
religion, etc,
allows me to have a feeling that
I'm meeting someone just the same as me.

I find that relating to others on that level
makes it much easier to exchange and
communicate with one another.  ...
Of course, it is helpful to understand and
appreciate the background of the people
you are dealing with, and
being open-minded and honest are
useful qualities when it comes down to
dealing with others."

from the book, "The Art Of Happiness":
A Handbook for Living
by Dalai Lama and Howard C. Cutler, MD, 1998

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