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An Attitude: A Lesson From A Patient  / 이한중


        Today, January 12, 2011,
        I woke up to find some seven inches of snow
        on the ground.
        I told all my elderly patients not to come in.
        However, one retired, elderly priest came in
        because his gastroenterologist advised him as such
        to get my approval  of steroid use.
        He was bleeding through the colostomy
        because of recurrent ulcerative colitis.

        Father GT and I have become good friends 
        over the years.
        Years ago he came down with rectal cancer.
        He developed a massive pulmonary embolism
        postoperatively. In addition, he was having
        an unstable angina from his coronary artery
        disease. He also had had chronic bronchial
        asthma and ulcerative colitis.
        I almost lost him a few times.
        He survived the surgery and all the complications
        with a massive medical effort.
        He wound up having a colostomy and
        having had to self-catheterize every 8 hours.
        He was no longer able to urinate naturally.

        After his medical problems became stabilized,
        he returned to work as a pastor.
        O, this maybe some 3 years ago.
        Then I noted that his work schedule
        was heavier than mine, and
        he would get short-winded after a short walk
        like walking to my office from the elevator,
        which is less than 50 yards.
        I volunteered to tell him as his physician,
        "Father, you won't live long this way.
        You should consider a medical retirement."
        He was already close to 80.
        I further went on to say to him,
        "From my perspective as a physician,
        there are two ways to serve the Lord.
        One is to imitate the saints all the way and
        die prematurely.
        The other is to take care of ourselves
        as well as we can with the help of medical
        science and serve the Lord within our ability
        and live a little longer.
        The total of the amount of good we are doing
        to serve the Lord perhaps may come out
        about the same no matter which way you
        may take. Nobody really knows. Only the Lord
        may know, I admit."
        He smiled and thought about it a while,
        then said,
        "If you want, you may write to the Archbishop,
        Cardinal M," which I subsequently did.
        The Archbishop quickly approved his retirement.

        He has gained strength since,
        although he still cleans the colostomy and
        self-catheterize every 8 hours.
        He volunteers to help other busy priests.
        When you look at him,
        you wouldn't know if there is anything wrong
        with him.
        He looks well. He always smiles and
        is cheerful.

        His attitude to life
        always is inspiring and
        a good lesson to me.
        All through my career as a physician
        over some 40 years,
        My best teachers in life have been
        my patients.
        I'm forever indebted to them.

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