2019.09.23 09:48
A New Beginning by Henri Nouwen
We must learn to live each day, each hour,
yes, each minute as a new beginning,
as a unique opportunity to make everything new.
Imagine that we could live each moment
as a moment pregnant with new life.
Imagine that we could live each day
as a day full of promises.
Imagine that we could walk through the new year
always listening to a voice saying to us,
" I have a gift for you and can't wait for you to see it!"
Imagine.
Is it possible that our imagination can lead us to the truth
of our lives? Yes, it can!
The problem is that we allow our past, which becomes
longer and longer each year, to say to us,
"You know it all; you have seen it all, be realistic;
the future will be just another repeat of the past.
Try to survive it as best you can."
There are many cunning foxes jumping on our shoulders
and whispering in our ears the great lie:
There is nothing new under the sun ....
don't let yourself be fooled...."
So what do we do?
First, we must send the foxes back to where they belong:
in their foxholes.
And then we must open our minds and our hearts
to the voice that resounds through the valleys and hills
of our life saying: "Let me show you where I live among my people.
My name is 'God-with-you.' I will wipe away all the tears
from your eyes; there will be no more death, no more mourning
or sadness. The world of the past has gone."(see Rev. 21:2-5)
We must choose to listen to that voice,
and every choice will open us a little more to discover
the new life hidden in the moment,
waiting eagerly to be born.
2019.09.23 10:05
2019.09.23 10:41
The Last Day of Frances
Silence, overwhelming; mid-afternoon, bright and sunny;
Autumn in Michigan;
Colors, reflections; falling leaves, motions;
Peace and serenity, permeating and filling,
The blue sky, the universe,
Each cell of my body and my soul.
A visit with Frances,
dying, waiting, for months in a hospital room.
Silence overwhelming; elderly blind mother, weeping;
Grownup children, standing in the corner, sobbing;
Husband, ever trying to find a comforting word;
The uncontrollable motions and twitchings of the cachectic body;
the uncontrollable, neverending waves of emotion;
Each moment, an eternity, filled with thousands of memories;
The panorama of life unfolding at the speed of light.
Suddenly her face lights up, then the mystic smile,
then the peace and serenity,
O, then the color, the glow and the warmth of love
Quickly fills up and brightens up the dreary hospital room
Outshining the brightest color of Michigan autumn.
My heart then knew what she had already known
Today is the last day after years of gallant fight.
2019.09.23 11:02
This patient, Frances, is one of the handful patients who taught me a great deal about
life and attitude towards life. She suffered a great deal, starting with rheumatoid arthritis,
then massive MI, CHF, finally massive liver necrosis. She died in her 70's.
Through it all, she always maintained a good attitude, always appreciative of what I was doing
as her treating physician. Her husband also had CABG while she was having all these sicknesses.
I vividly remember the day she died, which was one of most beautiful Michigan autumn days
with beautiful colors everywhere, clear blue sky, etc.
After she died on that day, which was Sunday, I felt compelled to write some words
in memory of her after got home.
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Most of us do try to live the way Henri Nouwen preaches here,
so has Zen Buddhist teaching for centuries.
But it is hard, especially for old retirees like us to practice that attitude.
In spite of that and in spite of the blatant fact that over 90% of what we do daily
is the repeat of yesterday such as doing dishes, making beds, doing grocery shopping, etc,
I am convinced that what Henri preaches here is the right, healthy attitude until
the day of eventuality so that we can be like some of my old patients who showed
the radiant smile to the family, doctors, and nurses during their final moments.
Those rare, few patients I witnessed gave me an unforgettable impression to this day.
I once, some 30 years ago, wrote a poem in memory of one of such patients, which I present in the below.