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is patience." Parents are people who love, cherish, and nurture. Parents are people who support, comfort and encourage. But most of all, parents are people who expect, anticipate, await, attend and serve. The dreams of parents are never fulfilled in their children, at least not in the way that parents originally dreamed them. Children have to dream and to act on their own dreams, even if these dreams seem nightmarish to their parents. Good parents know that, and are patient with children and their dreams. They correct the wayward child, but do not check. They intercede, but never intervene. For this, parents need patience. Thank God our God relates to us like a good parent. God knows how to let go and let be. Never meddling, but always in our midst. God waits for us and watches over us children as we dream our dreams and work to fulfill them. God knows that this is the best way, the godly way, the only way to be a good parent. The Alcoholics Anonymous uses the phrase, "Let Go and Let God." .....It simply means that God abides and cares. God cares. God will care for me. Few people really believe this. The proof of that disbelief is everywhere. But those who do let go; who ceases trying to control their own destiny, and who allow God to guide them find an exciting revelation. They discover that God has time for them, time to allow them to grow at their own pace, to mature at their own speed. Such people are like mustard seeds and increase like yeast. Such people have "good ground" for hope. Join them. Let go and let God. Webpage : Sukjoo |
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2009.08.31 08:36
2009.08.31 14:37
During those old days in Korea, a reasonably good son would follow what father said.
I followed the wish of my parents and went to medical school. Sound familiar?
I knew a lot of other guys in my class did the same !!
But in the end, I feel very fortunate that I followed his wish.
Most of all, I am very glad that my father told me what to do !!
As he was the person who knew what was best for me,
I might have felt betrayed or abandoned if he didn't say anything about what I should be.
In this modern world of America, parents may not have the right to tell his children
what to be or not to be, but they should try positively to influence their children.
In this aspect, I do not agree with Father Belczak to stay at the sideline and just watch.
Those young kids in America will never ask their parents. Parents have to say it first !!
In an American phrase, "Listen to your mother !!" is not a shabby idea at all.
Parents might make much less mistake in determining the future of his children.
In most cases, they may know better than the child himself.
Having said that, do I belong to the old generation of my father's time?
PS: Having read what Father Belczak said, I didn't want to just pass it up as a good idea
or bad idea. Instead, I wanted to write a small essay on the subject in the comment space.
Only problem on that is I tend to be anti-authority and prefer to disagree !! Ha, ha.
I wish we all should do that at least once in a while.
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"The dreams of parents are never fulfilled in their children,
at least not in the way that parents originally dreamed them."
Most of us, the parents, "wish and then realize" what is written in the above paragraph.
I did too in the earlier times when our children were young and growing.
It says as if we shouldn't expect our children to fulfill our dreams.
It seems to be true. If we give up, we will have peace in our mind.
"They correct the wayward child, but do not check.
They intercede, but never intervene."
What if some of our children aren't wayward?
What if they are eager to succeed?
Then, is it a bad thing to expect them to fulfill our dreams?
Is intervention or interference a bad thing to practice?
Will there be "Tiger Woods, Seri Pak, or Michelle Wie" without their parents
who might have been overzealously ambitious and pushed their kids to their goal ??
What is good or bad, I don't dare to believe that I know, and we may never know.